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Casting Crowns Music

November 20, 2009 By kwmccarthy

Casting Crowns is a contemporary Christian band that just had an article written about them entitled Casting Crowns On Purpose.  In the article, the front man, Mark Hall, shares what it means to have a "life on purpose."  He is really close to understanding the power and potential of being on-purpose. 

Back in the late 1980s when I was teaching about on-purpose in the positive, it was very novel.  Until that time, most people would use on purpose to negate a negative, such as, "I didn't mean to spill my milk on purpose."  I knew then, as I still do today that I am pioneering a positive concept whose time has yet to come.  Even today, most people are seeking their purpose, rather than the follow through of living or being on-purpose.

I envisioned the day when the words and concept of being on-purpose would be in the popular culture.  Well, it continues to creep into everyday use more and more as the Casting Crowns article indicates.  I must admit a certain measure of joy mixed with disappointment because
the general use of purpose is misunderstood and the concept / lifestyle
of being on-purpose is used far too cavalierly. 

Pastor Rick Warren's work, The Purpose Driven Life popularized the use of purpose; unfortunately, it was a watered down version of the concept.  Oh well, I persevere in this calling trusting the results to God.

Be On-Purpose!

Kevin

Fall In Love With Your Life

October 21, 2009 By kwmccarthy

Maria Carter and I met at an On-Purpose Person workshop I conducted in San Diego around 1995.  She bubbled with enthusiasm for life and people.  She has a voice and spirit that is positively uplifting.

At the time we met, Maria had a dream of helping people learn to love themselves more fully.   I'm proud to Fall In Love With Your Life book cover art recommend her book, Fall In  Love With Your Life Forever.  This work is an expression of her purpose and is true gift to women who struggle with their inner critic.  Go to her website and order the book today. 

Guys, it is a great gift to give to women in your life.  Wives, daughters, and mothers alike will benefit from calming their self critical voice and allowing their true selves to emerge on-purpose.  Not only will her life be better, but so will yours.   If momma is happy, then everyone is happy.  ; )   

Crown Ministries Founder Howard Dayton

October 12, 2009 By kwmccarthy

Howard Dayton is one of the creators of Crown Financial Ministries.  I've been blessed to participate in several Crown Ministries programs over the years.  In fact, my Crown Group still meets regularly to study, learn, grow, and support each other in life and work.  

Howard and I first connected back in 1993 when The On-Purpose Person was first released.  I remember having lunch with him and being impressed with his gracious manner, genuine faith, and sense of call upon his life.  Here was an on-purpose person par excellence.  At the time, I remember Howard's excitement that over 27,000 people that year had participated in the Crown Financial Ministries flagship program:  Biblical Financial Study.  Today, there are probably 27,000 per week doing this program.   It is life transforming.  Do this program! 

Over the years, Howard and my paths would cross from time to time with chance meetings in airports and such.   Wednesday, Howard was the keynote speaker at the stewardship dinner for my church – All Saints Episcopal- Winter Park. We shared a brief reunion. I was delighted to have this photo snapped so I could share it with you.  I treasure his leadership and example.

Few of us will ever have the opportunity to transform so many lives.  So meet my friend Howard Dayton and give thanks for his life and ministry.  By the way, October 7 was his 66th birthday.  Happy birthday Howard! 

Be On-Purpose!

Kevin

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Tithes Versus Taxes: The True Reformation of Healthcare

September 15, 2009 By kwmccarthy

This early morning I was greeted by an e-briefing from US Senator Nelson of Florida.  I've watched this whole health care debate with a measure of sadness over a divided country that is bickering and back biting over issues when fundamental societal shifts are being missed.  All are well intended, but all are missing the mark.

If you want to cut to the chase on my take on the current reality, skip down to the last paragraph after my response to Senator Nelson.

Here is a link to the Senator's full letter.  Here is the Senator's opening line for brevity:

Dear Kevin,

Most of the calls and mail coming into my office these days are from constituents worried about health care. Regardless of where anyone stands on the specifics of this issue, I think we all can agree the current system is unfair, too costly, and needs to be fixed.  [bold is my emphasis.]

I wrote back to my Senator:

Dear Senator Nelson,

Thank you for serving our country to the best of your ability.

The opening premise of your e-brief, "I think we all can agree the current system is unfair, too costly, and needs to be fixed." is not correct.  Please do not presume to tell me what I believe.

"Fairness" is not a constitutional right.  Even little kids understand that uniqueness presents certain advantages and disadvantages.  In short, unfairness is inherent in life.   The rights we have are to "life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness," not fairness.

Regarding healthcare, "fair" is that anyone can walk into a community hospital in this country and be given extraordinary care.  That is the goodness of the community put in place decades ago, not to be legislated by the federal government.  People taking care of people provides genuine care.  Let the private and religious sectors continue their long history of caring for the sick, needy, and homeless.

"Too costly" relative to what and who decides?  What costs are being considered in the calculation?  Our country offers everything from free clinics to premium health care.   People decide where and what sacrifices or expenses are necessary, not government.  Insurance is not a right, but a benefit offered by many companies.  Let's give people incentives to get good jobs or start businesses that use health care to attract and retain good people.  Let's reward right behavior.

Finally, "fixing".  The government's top down approach on social matters is never a fix.  The founders framed the country so government moves slowly. Jamming through this health care reform legislation is irresponsibility.  The Great Society didn't work.  The "Great Healthcare System" won't either. 

Please get back to the people's business of governing, defense, and upholding the Constitution you swore to protect.  Today we have remarkable enemies who would do us harm.  Please protect our borders, reduce our government spending on unconstitutional programs, and learn to be content governing less rather than more.

The marketplace with government officiating works wonders.  When the government both officiates play and participates in the market, then the game ends.  We all lose.  KISS: Keep It Simple Senator!  Please govern by legislating the boundaries of society and stop interfering within them.

Be On-Purpose!

Kevin W. McCarthy
CEO

On-Purpose Partners, LLC

There, I've gone on record with Senator Nelson and here in my blog.  

One of the key long term observations underlying my response is the fact that government over the last 50 to 60 years is stepping into the "brother's keeper" business.  By stepping into the theology of society government is creating a non-denominational, secularized, unsanctioned, state religion.

The church has been marginalized in the process.  Yes, a new religion has been birthed.  People turn to the government for help instead of God and God's people.  But government is flawed; God is not.  Expedience invites us turn to the flawed instead of the flawless.  In the long run, the true cost is loss of ourselves, our hope, and our potential.  Government should not be in God's people's business, but God's people do belong in government if for no other reason than to keep the lines of government and church distinctively sharp and clean cut.

In the debate happening in Washington, DC, this alarming trend to a "new state religion" is being lost in the day to day incremental movement and weakening of all our religious institutions.  Admittedly, the church is inept to fight tithes against taxes.  Ironically, God requests only 10% for his church, while the Government seeks to tax up to 50%! (Does that say that God is five time more effective and efficient than government?)

I would love to hear your comments.  This whole debate here in the US has startling implication around the world.  Is government moving into the God business too much?  Tell me your thoughts.

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Easter Family Photo

April 12, 2009 By kwmccarthy

St. Pauls 2 Our family attended church at St. Paul's Episcopal Church in Augusta, GA – the church where Judith and I married 25 years ago.  Accompanying us was Judith's 93-year-old mother, aka Grannie.  It was  a special event for us all to be together. 

Afterward Anne and I headed to the Masters to watch those amazing golfers.   We sat in the stand at hole 8 for quite a while.  We watched Trevor Immelman make a long birdie putt and Tiger Woods sink an eagle putt.  The weather was wonderful.  Tonight my nose is sunburned red! 

We're staying with the Parkers who have graciously opened their house to the McCarthy invasion once again.  It is nice to have in-laws who are so welcoming.  So thanks John and Mary Bright!

I hope your Easter was fun, family filled, and joyful.  Easter is the most holy of days because of the miracle of Jesus' resurrection.  Regardless of your present circumstances, joy can be had in the hope of Easter.

Be On-Purpose!

Kevin

Happy Easter!

April 12, 2009 By kwmccarthy

May your Easter Day be filled with joy!

We're in the Augusta, GA area for the holiday with family.   My wife grew up here.  Later today, my daughter Anne and I are heading to the Masters Golf Tournament to watch the greats of the game.  We're hoping to watch Trevor Immelman play as his father and I are acquainted through my books.  They're a nice family.  I was delighted to see him win the green jacket last year.  

I hope your Easter Day is special.

Be On-Purpose!

Kevin

See Kevin’s Interview on The Good Life

February 26, 2009 By kwmccarthy

Watch The Good Life with Ken Mikesell and Barbara Beck.  TV45

Kevin's interview airs on March 2nd & March 5th at 7:30AM, 12:00PM, 3:00PM, & 8:00PM on station WTGL.

The Good Life is on channel 45 in the Central Florida area.  For Brighthouse customers, tune in to channel 19.

For those not in Central Florida, you can see the interview on WTGL's web site after the episode airs.

Purpose or Purposes

November 21, 2008 By kwmccarthy

You have only one purpose in life.   Once you know that purpose, you are to align your life and make choices consistent with it so you are on your purpose, rather than off your purpose.  That’s the essential message of being on-purpose.

In business, and especially in the church community, many people write about their “purposes.”  Note the use of the plural form, a recent pop culture invention mostly due to Pastor Rick Warren’s book The Purpose Driven Life in which he tells people they have five purposes of Worship, Fellowship, Discipleship, Ministry, and Evangelism.  These are missions of the church, not purposes.  For all the good Pastor Warren’s book is doing, it is ultimately confusing people at the core of their being, but it is getting them engaged in life more profoundly.

You do not have many purposes in life.   You may have multiple visions and missions, but only one purpose.  You may have many reasons for doing something, but only one will to do it. (Read more about the subtle differences between purpose, vision, mission, and values by clicking on this sentence.)

Need further proof of the singular nature of purpose?   The Merriam-Webster Online Dictionary doesn’t provide a plural for purpose.  Purpose is inherently singular.

For example, here is an excerpt from a devotional I read today, “God
will provide the necessary circumstances to accomplish His purposes in
your life.” This is incorrect because of the plural use of the word.  God has one purpose for your life, and, yes, he will arrange the circumstances.  To push the point just a bit further, let’s replace purposes with the word will.  This is a more accurate description of the usage.  God has one will, not a plurality of wills.

Reason and purpose are frequently interchanged.  Life purpose is a person’s one reason for being or raison d’etre.  Purpose in lieu of reason is an appropriate, but a less effective word choice.  Purpose is deeply about one’s intention or will.   I appreciate that one can have many reasons for doing something, but there is one intention.  To be otherwise is to be double-minded or confused.  That is the very challenge purpose clarifies for you.  You can’t have purposes or be on-purposes. The logic and semantics don’t support the concept of purpose – plural.

Avoid getting caught up in this sloppiness of use.  Strike the non-word purposes from your vocabulary. Purpose is a truly special and remarkably powerful word as applied to one’s life purpose.  Seek the singleness of strength of being of one mind, body, and spirit and you will be on-purpose.

Your comments are always invited.

Be On-Purpose!

Kevin

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